Guest Post: Lifestyle eating and exercising

Today’s post will be from an awesome bro – Andrik Sim: “Lifestyle eating and exercising“. Enjoy.

This is about living your life, eating what you want, and exercise. This is not about creating a 3-month weight losing program and reverting back to your original eating habits at the end. It is about adjusting your eating habits and exercise into your lifestyle so that everything flows in harmony.

A lot of “eating healthy” today draws up a painful, agonizing image for people where they run on strictly vegetables, plain yoghurt, cottage cheese, etc-a total horror show. Most people trying to lose weight today find it difficult, painful and all in all cutting off what they like-food. They think they have to starve. But to me, that’s not living your life, and with a life like that, i wouldn’t be able to enjoy the benefits gained from the exercises. I might even stop after awhile. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Eating healthy doesn’t mean starving, not at all. And it doesn’t mean cutting your meals into a hamster diet. I don’t strive to be perfect in my eating habits, and i don’t expect you to, besides, there’s no point. I love to cook and bake, and baking deals with butter, and butter = fats. But that’s okay for me, because when i exercise, i do it twice harder, and i enjoy that. I like to go out and eat like crazy, i have a sweet tooth, especially for the molten chocolate lava cake at Chilli’s. But in my usual meals, i keep it simple and go for vegetables, chicken/fish/egg with my breakfast made up of grapes and apples. And i’ve lost significant weight over the year. There’s something bigger than eating healthy just because it makes you lose weight. And if you’ve paid attention to your body, you’d know what i mean. What i eat isn’t so much about losing weight, it’s how i felt after i ate. When i ate healthy, i felt light, fast, clear, focused and lots of energy. And naturally you would be in good health, though some of you would hate not getting MCs…but thats the price to pay.

Your present diet may be giving you plenty of ‘energy’, but it may also be affecting your mood levels and lower your level of awareness. Some of you prefer eating junk food because “plain” food tastes blend. But thats because most of our tongues are messed up by the extra-sharp-flavour-msg added into today’s food, and its been killing our sensitivity to taste. But once you start eating healthy food for awhile, your tongue starts to adapt back and starts to really tastes the “blend” flavors again-which actually tastes really good and refreshing. Time to give your tongue a break.

Find out the difference between how you feel when you have a bowl of assorted fruits like honeydew, grapes, apples, pears, sliced mangoes and papayas, as compared to how you feel after eating Macdonald fries. And make your choice.

Eating healthy is not so much being anal about every meal, but is a very concious choice of eradicating most food like chips, fries(even though i don’t consider Seaweed fries from macdonalds to be fries..BECAUSE ITS SO GOOD), fast foods, pizzas because deep down they don’t make you feel as good. Since this is for lifestyle eating, be flexible, if all your buddies want to hit up modestos for the huge ass pizza, go for it.Give it a try, eat healthy for a month, pay attention to how you feel, and then switch to eating unhealthy food frequently for another month, and notice how you feel.

For the some of you who resist exercise, that’s because you haven’t found what you like to do, and your main reason for exercising isn’t strong enough. I love running, and at first i did it because my main reason was to lose weight, and it was undoubtedly agonizing. It didn’t change until i started running at night, late in the night like 12am, and i started developing feelings for running, especially for forest trails. I liked the way the air smelled, of earth and trees…and monkeys. And i started to love the motion of simply running. My initial reason for running faded away, and i developed a new one: I ran because i loved to run. It sounds crazy, but most runners will agree. This love for running became a joyful experience, and losing weight became a byproduct, and an easy one at that. Martial arts and gym gives me the same feeling. So, find your reason, find what makes you feel good, and nothing can stop you.

You may not lose weight as fast as compared to someone with a strict diet, or you may, but whats important is that you are on track and enjoying yourself wholly. Just remember, always be honest, don’t make excuses for yourself. Eating is not the problem, the habit is the problem. It’s just like smoking. If you decide to have pizza for dinner, be fully concious and responsible for the aftereffects.

There’s no such thing as a bad or good habit, everything has its price and pleasure. Recognizing both sides, you become realistic and responsible for your actions. Responsibility means recognizing both price and pleasure, action and consequence, then making a choice.

Find out what works for you, try both sides of the coin.

Eat, love and laugh,

Andrik.

8 Tips for Gaining Mass from Naturally Big People

Please note that I am not the author of these tips.  I do not claim credit for these 8 tips. What you see below are certain extracts from the article coupled with my personal opinions. The article is written by Krista Scott-Dixon and if you’ll like to read the full 3000+ words article (which I do recommend if you are interested), it can be found here.

Fret not! Help is here!

Now, you may be Public Enemy No.1 for being able to eat pretty much anything you want without gaining weight, but that is not what you want and you know it’s not your fault! Don’t worry there, here are some tips that will hopefully aid you in your journey to look less like a prisoner of war.

1. Put some emotions into your eating habits.
Ever realized how sometimes when you are upset or happy, you tend to have a better appetite? Yes it’s true – you can resort to food as your  ‘feel good blanket’.

  • Boss barked at you for no good reason? – EAT!
  • Met your deadlines? – EAT!
  • Girlfriend not replying your messages? – EAT!

Reminds you of you? EAT NOW!

2. Eat with distractions.
If you are not focusing when you are eating, you will tend to over-eat. Just like watching the television during dinner hours. If you are constantly putting food into your mouth without knowing how much you have already put, man you are going to gain some serious weight. Bottom line – never pay attention to the act of eating.

  • Watching a show? – Grab the whole container of food and it will magically disappear after
  • Surfing Facebook? – You can play Bejeweled and eat at the same time, trust me on that
  • Driving? – Make sure no traffic police sees you when you sneak food into your mouth

Clearing all that? No problemo!

3. Eat frequently.
Don’t think about breakfast, lunch or dinner. If you feel like putting food into your mouth (or even if you don’t), just eat! Just recall the feeling of being hungry. It’s not a good feeling isn’t it?

4. Eat Fast.
It takes an average of about 20 minutes before the body realizes that it is full. Use that to your advantage and DEVOUR EVERYTHING YOU SEE!

 

NOM NOM NOM!

5. Eat calorie-dense food.
Basically such foods are those that contain a large amount of calories for their portion size. Here’s the important thing that you have to know, there are nutritious calorie-dense food (full-fat meat, cheese, beans and etc.) and there are non-nutritious calorie-dense food (fast food, chips, candies, sodas, sugary cereals and etc.) Now, depending on who you want to look like, I think it’s not hard for you to pick what kind of food you want to put into your mouth. Yes, you want to GAIN MUSCLE MASS, NOT FAT!

Him?

Or him?

6. Drink your calories.
You won’t feel as full when you consume liquid based foods instead of solids. One Venti White Hot Chocolate from Starbucks contains about as much calories as one plate of chicken rice. Which feels fuller?

7. Cave to social pressures.
Think about all the efforts that your mom put into cooking the meals for dinner. How can you disappoint her by eating only a fraction? Show her that you care now by eating everything up!

She made all these for you and you are NOT going to eat it?!?!

8. Get support from family and friends.
Let your family and friends know that you are serious about looking more like who’s someone fit instead of hopeless. Eat with someone bigger than you and who knows, out of sympathy he or she might spare you some food.

You won't eat alone!

All the best skinny people!

The Hidden Influence of Social Networks

In this interesting video below, Dr. Nicholas Christakis talks about the effects of social networks on our behaviors, actions and ideas that mold us into who we are today. These effects are powerful yet they may not be obvious to us. He goes about to demonstrate how you look, feel, act right now may very much be caused by your friends.

You being fat may be your friends’ fault. Or, your friends being fat may be YOUR fault (HA! bet you didn’t see that coming did you?)

Very interesting stuff. I strongly recommend you to put aside 18 minutes of your time to watch it and another 2 minutes to ponder over it.

Some interesting points:

  1. Obesity can be epidemic, spreading from people to people
  2. Even how happy or sad you are, may be your friends’ actions, or THEIR friends’ actions OR, THEIR FRIENDS’ FRIENDS’ action (wah!)
  3. Whether your friends know each other, may be because of your genes (whether you like to introduce your friends and stuff)
  4. Connections Matter
  5. “The spread of good and valuable things, is required to sustain and nourish social networks. Similarly, social networks are required for the spread of good and valuable things – like love, and kindness, and happiness, and altruism ,and ideas. I think in fact that if we realize how valuable social networks are, we would spend a lot more time nourishing them and sustaining them. Because I think social networks are fundamentally related to goodness. And what I think the world needs now is more connection” – Dr. Nicholas Christakis

Just a quick update

Well since my post on “What the hell has Victor been up to?“, I’ve got quite a few readers asking me the same question…

Male Reader A: “You eat so much (quantity) and there are junk food, how can you look good?”

Male Reader B: “You seem like you party more than you train, no way you look better than me!”

Female Readers A-F: “Show us your topless pictures!”

Ok I may have made the last one up but… here’s something to show that i’m not all out of shape…

Note: I do not claim to have the best looking body around. I feel that I look pretty damn good given the fact that I have been eating quite a lot bit of junk. You guys be the judge =)

12 Tips for Losing Fat from Naturally Skinny People

Please note that I am not the author of these tips.  I do not claim credit for these 12 tips. What you see below are certain extracts from the article coupled with my personal opinions. The article is written by Krista Scott-Dixon and if you’ll like to read the full 5000+ words article (which I do recommend if you are interested), it can be found here.

There’s these bunch of naturally skinny people who seem to be able to eat anything they want without gaining fat. They simply pick whatever that looks best on the menu without having to think about whether it’s healthy or fattening, and are almost always ready to go get extra scoops of ice cream for dessert. I’m sure some of you are as jealous as I am, because we don’t have such ‘lucky genes’. Not watching what we put into our mouths for just a short duration and before you know it, another inch is added to the mid-section. However as bitter as we may be, do note that there are some very useful things that we can learn from our naturally skinny peers. Here it goes:

1. Understand that you have a lot of control over your eating behavior, regardless of your physiology.
Don’t just give up and say “I’ve got unlucky genes”. You can always pick the right foods. It boils down to a matter of how much you want to look good and live well.

2. Food is just food. It should not be used as a reward or an emotional outlet.
Naturally skinny people usually do not feel the need to eat crap when they feel upset or after they have achieved something. You know that feeling when you get after having completed your 4 hours assignment and the next 20 mins you are queuing up for KOI bubble tea? The naturally skinny people don’t buy into that.

 

All that for KOI?! Ok I plead guilty too...

 

3. Re-prioritize food and put it in its proper place — as something that tastes good and sustains us, but should not dominate our thinking.
Kinda like see no evil, hear no evil. If junk food isn’t accessible to you, you are less likely to eat it. For a moment lets just imagine that there’s no Mc Donalds delivery and in order to get your Chicken McNuggets you’ve got to walk like 2km to the nearest Mc Donalds. Are you seriously going to do that?

 

Do you have any idea how far he has to walk to get to school? Will you do the same for Mc Donalds?

 

4. Pay attention to your physical cues. Start eating when you’re physically hungry and stop when you’re physically full.

5. Change your expectations of fullness. Stop before you feel stuffed, or even “full”.

 

You don't have to feel like this after every meal

 

6. Understand that cravings come and go. Ignore the cravings, distract yourself, and don’t keep problem foods in the house.
Kinda like point 3.

7. Keep moving, as much as possible.
This is as simple as it gets.

8. It’s OK to say no to food in social situations. The more you assert yourself, the more people will get used to it.
It’s really hard to do this at first. People are not used to that. My close friends always laugh at my food choices. On days that I choose to eat clean, they look at me like I’m a geek. On days that I choose to sin, they give me the “wtf aren’t you the health freak” kinda look. It’s tough I know. I love my friends still but now I just laugh at their physique when they laugh at my choices.

 

Just Do It

 

9. In order for behavior to change, your identity has to change. Skinny guys have to think of themselves as bigger and more muscular; heavier folks have to think of themselves as working towards being lean athletes.
My mentors once told me – “BECOME, DO, HAVE”. Most people do it in this manner instead – “DO, BECOME, HAVE”
Think about it.

10. Portion sizing is important. Your idea of the correct portion may be wrong.

11. Change requires practice. The more you practice eating smaller (or larger) meals, the more your body will get used to it.
Rome isn’t build in one day.

12. Make your behaviors match your goals. If you’re constantly acting in ways that self-sabotage, you either need to change the behaviors or your goals. In any case, be realistic and honest about what you are doing.

There you go, all the best now!

What the hell has Victor been up to?

I know it’s been quite awhile since I’ve last updated this space. My apologies for that guys but I’ve been really busy with tons of coaching, training and playing – all in the name of fun!

So here’s what I’ve been up to for the past two weeks. [WARNING - MANY MANY PICTURES ARE ABOUT TO BE LOADED!]

Prawning with KOI Bubble Tea

Prawning with KOI Bubble Tea

In an awesome ice cream cafe with awesome bros, food and games

In an awesome ice cream cafe with awesome bros, foods and games

Best ice cream and waffles in town! - Click on the picture to visit their site

DRINKING!

Drinking!

More sinful food

More sinful food

More sinful food part 2

More sinful food part 2

More sinful food part 3

More sinful food part 3

More Drinking!

More Drinking!

More Partying!

More Partying!

Socializing

Socializing

Making fun of wasted people in the club

Making fun of wasted people in the club

Training toys

Training toys

Step 1 - Getting in position

Step 1 - Getting in position

Step 2 - Lift off

Step 2 - Lift off

Step 2.5 - Pose for the camera

Step 2.5 - Pose for the camera

Step 3 - Push!

Step 3 - Push!

Coaching, studying, learning to drive and doing salsa are some of the things that are missed out from the list. Who says you have to train many many times a week for many many hours to look good and perform better? Not in my world. I do eat crap, drink, party, and STILL have a pretty damn good looking and functional body.

Not sure how to do it? Give me a holler and I’ll be more than happy to lead you a hand.

Not Just Any Victor.

Quick Fixes for your Lower Back – Part 2

In Part 1 of the article we spoke about how the hip flexor is one of the components leading to lower back pain. Today we will explore the other areas that may also contribute to this unwanted cause.

Back Pain? Let's solve this

1. Tight Rectus Femoris (Your Front Thigh Muscles)

Your quadricep muscles

This is a very common issue that affects a lot of people. In most cases, when individuals perform a lot activities with quad emphasis (either consciously or unconsciously, such as using only a partial range of motion from executing certain exercises to focus more on the quadriceps muscles or bad running technique that does not recruit the hamstrings), their quads get excessive tension and if those are not loosen up, they will pull your hips forward, pulling your lower back muscles and causing them to be shorten (sounds familiar?).

The solution for this case is pretty simple – you just have to lengthen your quadriceps muscles. There are a couple of ways to do it, the easiest one that you can do right now is to stretch your quadriceps.

Quad Stretch

1. Stand upright on one foot
2. Hold the other foot using either the same hand or the opposite hand and pull your leg towards your butt
3. You can use your other free hand to grab or press against a surface if find yourself losing balance
4. Keep your torso upright at all times and hold the stretch for about 15-30 seconds until you feel that the spot has loosen up
5. Do not flare your knee out, like this:

Not what you want to do

2. Weak Glutes (Your Ass Muscles!)

Enough with the anatomy pictures already vic!

Your ass will be weak if all you do is sit down all day and not move around. When your body requires you to perform an action that requires your glutes to fire up (for example, picking up something heavy off the floor), other muscles will come in to help because your ass’ strength is basically non existent. This is known as overcompensation and guess which area takes the beating the most – yes, it’s your lower back again.

Strengthening Your Glutes

1. Lie on your back with your arms at the side, knees bent and feet flat on the ground
2. Squeezing your ass, lift it off the ground as high as you can
3. Hold at the top position for 2-3 seconds
4. Lower under control to a point just above the ground and repeat
5. Focus on squeezing your ass instead of using your other muscles (lower back and hamstrings) to propel you upwards
6. Perform 10 reps

To Summarize:
1. Stretch Your Hip Flexors
2. Stretch Your Quads
3. Strengthen Your Glutes

Do these exercises on a daily basis and before you know it, lower back pain be gone!